In Lynette’s role as a young mother raising seven children and a member of a sprawling family with ten siblings, the significance of relationships loomed large in her life. Despite this, she often found herself entangled in conflicts with those closest to her heart. The turning point arrived when the turmoil within her marriage reached a palpable peak, culminating in an unexpected and jarring moment on the side of a bustling Canadian highway. Stranded without money, identification, or a means of communication, she stood witness as her husband drove away with their children, leaving her in a state of shock and uncertainty.

Shortly thereafter, Lynette’s husband returned, his actions silently conveying a realization that this was not the path he desired. The journey back to Utah transpired in a tense silence, marking a crucial juncture for her. It was then that Lynette resolved to eschew contention as a means of creation and adopted a transformative approach, using conflict as a catalyst for growth.

Recognizing that the failure of personality systems can prove detrimental to marital harmony, Lynette sought better answers. Her breakthrough came with the discovery and development of the Relate Social Structure—an innate framework ingrained in our beings, guiding our choices and nurturing relationships. Fast forward forty-seven years, and Lynette and her husband continue to share a blissful marriage.

Armed with the insights gleaned from her journey, Lynette now dedicates herself to leveraging the Relate Social Structure to positively impact the lives of others, offering them the same transformative potential that shaped her own enduring connection.